For this kind of group to work, we need children to want to be there. Unlike a school class where attendance is required, a social skills group works best when a child is genuinely curious or motivated ( even if just a little!).Children who are dragged along tend to disengage, and it can be hard to learn new skills when you don't see the point.
This doesn't mean your child needs to be jumping up and down with excitement. But if they are open to trying it and can see why it might be a good idea, that is perfectly fine. As we learn more about your child we will also try and include their interests and strengths into the group so that they have a great time
Research tells us that when it comes to social and emotional learning, intrinsic motivation matters — children learn best when they feel some ownership over why they are there.
Why is this important?
Talking to your Child about joining a Social Group
The most important thing is to keep it low-key and positive. You're not telling them something is wrong. You're offering them something fun. Lead with the activities before mentioning the skills side, and follow their lead from there.
Here are some things to cover:
The activities — the group runs outdoors and includes things like building forts, climbing, and real-life Minecraft
The size — it's a small group of six kids
Who runs it — it's led by Claire, a speech therapist, with two assistants
The purpose — the group helps kids build tools and skills for making friends and handling tricky moments with peers, a bit like how AusKick helps kids get better at footy.
How they feel — give them a chance to ask questions or share any worries
A few tips
The less of a big deal you make it, the better
If they have questions, answer them honestly and simply
It's okay if they're unsure — you don't need a "yes!" straight away, just plant the seed
Now you are ready to fill out a Group Application!